How to deal with a sugar daddy

The first thing to know about a sugar daddie is that you are not his first choice. 

If you want to make a real impact, you have to be his first. 

You might even be his only choice.

There is no shame in that. 

So let’s look at what you can do to protect yourself.

If you have had enough of this crap, then here are some ideas to make you feel better.1.

Find someone you really like. 

The next best thing is to find someone you have a genuine friendship with and see how it goes. 

Sometimes it takes a while for a new love interest to settle into your life and find their own way, so be patient.2.

Find something that excites you. 

Do you have an interest in something you are passionate about? 

Take a moment to see what it is you enjoy and find something that will give you that energy.3.

Take some time to talk to your friends. 

Even if they are just friends, talk to them about your feelings and your situation. 

A little research can also help you to get to know someone you like more.4.

Find a different role. 

While it might not seem that way at first, it’s important to know that you don’t have to do this alone. 

There are so many role models out there and they are all willing to help. 

Take some time and see who you can relate to.5. 

Try to get out of your comfort zone. 

It’s okay to be a bit nervous or a little bit anxious, but try to take things slowly and listen to your body. 

When you have time, sit in a quiet room with a book and let your mind wander. 

Once you have calmed down, get out and get out there.6. 

Get a support group. 

Find a support community where you can come and connect. 

I have seen a lot of groups that have a really good support system. 

Go and ask someone to go and meet you, or meet someone to help you.7. 

Ask your friend. 

Some people do not want to get involved with a relationship, or it’s not for them, but there are plenty of good friends out there who will take the time to offer advice and help.8. 

Talk to someone who is your opposite sex. 

This will make you realize you have more in common with your potential sugar daddy than you might think. 

Most people who have dated a sugar baby or sugar daddy have found that they have a lot in common. 

9. 

Learn to listen. 

In many cases, the first thing you have done in dealing with a sweetheart is listen to them. 

And you should be able to do the same thing if you are dating someone you love. 

10. 

Accept that there are people who are attracted to you. 

 When you find yourself being the target of online abuse or online hate, it is important to accept that there will be a lot out there that is out there, even if you don´t like it. 

All we can do is learn from our mistakes. 

Read more: How to deal and what to do about online abuse